Sunday, January 10, 2010

India & Fundraising Part 1 - Juice



This morning I’m drinking fresh pressed pomegranate juice. I discovered this fabulous elixir in the heat of India.

It was the end of a long trip, it was August and it was hot. The conference was over and while fabulous, I had that post conference fatigue common to fundraisers everywhere. Adding to the exhaustion was a seven hour drive north in Indian rush hour traffic the night before. And, savvy world traveller that I am not, I appeared at the airport a full 30 hours early for my flight which left me scrambling to find accommodation in the largest most chaotic city I had ever seen.

So when finally settled with decent but not too expensive place to sleep I decided to make the most of the situation and hire a guide to show me around. My guide (whose name I sadly didn’t write down) was lovely. She looked cool, like she had a bubble of air conditioning around her. She was very proud of her English and enjoyed demonstrating for me her university level education.

Our journey started with a simple question: What do I want to do in Delhi? I honestly had no idea. Truthfully I just wanted to get home and I told her so. I probably wasn’t very nice about it either. Then she turned to me and in the sweetest most gentle and yet directive voice she said ‘Miss Kimberley, I think you need a juice. Let’s get you a juice. Would you like that?’ 'Yes, sure' I replied.

When we found the juice bar (picture above) I was feeling unsure. Having been very careful about my food for ten days I didn't want to risk illness. The view from the juice bar (below) had me feeling less than confident.



'How do you know it is safe to drink?' I asked. My guide's response, 'I just do. And there aren't any flies on the fruit.' Okay - good enough for me!

As we drank our warm sweet juice (because of course both she and the driver also needed a juice) I felt renewed energy and excitement about the day ahead.

Now then, an interesting thing happened this morning. After having watched how pomegranate juice is made in India, I spent 90 minutes this morning painstakingly extracting the seeds from the fruit. The result is the most fabulously sweet burst of flavor and energy you can imagine. I gave up after 8 pieces of fruit. With four pomegranates left my husband (the chef) came down and told me all I needed to do was run the entire fruit through the juicer to get the same result. Which he did.

Was it the same? No. Not at all. All the bitterness from the skin was now in the juice. We could no longer drink it.

The patience, determination and detail in the way Indian's made the juice resulted in a sweeter, more satisfying product.

Perhaps we can apply this lesson to our fundraising also?

Here I am now in rural Ontario in the middle of winter I’m thinking about that fabulous trip. I learned a lot from the people and the fundraisers I met and in the coming weeks I'll share more of these lessons with you.

To be continued…

Thank you for spending time here.

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Best of learning 2009

I am a work in progress. So are you.

At the end of the year it is a useful exercise to stop and ask yourself: What do I know now that I didn’t know last year?

Answering this question can provide reassurance that progress is in fact in process!

It is also useful to write down your learning so others can benefit from it. My post last year about 2008 has received most traffic on this blog so far. So I’m sharing my list with you again. The challenge is that I learned too much in 2009 for one blog post. Here is my abridged list. A few will become their own post in the coming weeks. But for today this is what I know now that I didn’t know last year.

1. Twitter works.

2. SOFII is transforming how we learn and share together.

3. If you have given all you can – find a new challenge.

4. 5 KM isn’t that far. Run it!

5. You kids will talk to you more if you have an msn account. Learn their language. My daughter's self portrait:
6. Be grateful when someone cares enough to criticize.

7. Burn out is real.

8. The Global South is the new fundraising frontier.

9. Budgets absolutely MUST be driven by a manageable work plan.

10. The more I learn the less I know.

People who influenced me the most in 2009

1. Craig MacKenzie (Ontario) – he tolerates me with calm pragmatism

2. Skye MacKenzie (Ontario)– pays more attention than I think

3. Chase MacKenzie (Ontario) – always full of empathy

4. Ken Burnett (UK & France) – inspirational and challenging at same time

5. Marie Burnett (UK & France) – a magnificent and patient editor

6. Gayle Wood (Ontario) – sensible, wise and fair

7. Mark Phillips (UK) – a generous and charming resource

8. Nisia Hanson (USA) – unfailingly enthusiastic and supportive

9. Jackie Mendoza (UK) – calm, encouraging and makes me laugh

10. John Lepp (Ontario) – generous and honest

11. Ram Kapar (Nepal) – His unfailing determination and for teaching me that humanity is one family and the world is one home

12. Sudeshna Kukherjee (India) – Beautiful. A bright light full of positive energy

The book that had the biggest impact on my work in 2009

The Influential Fundraiser
Bernard Ross and Claire Segal

(Watch this space for more on some of these points. Numbers 1, 7 and 8 are coming soon.)

In order to advance the sector and improve the world we must keep learning and asking ourselves and others ‘Why?’. We must constantly challenge ourselves to do better.

Take a moment now to think about your list of learning for 2009? It would be great if you felt like sharing it and left a comment here. We might all learn something that way.

The most important thing though is to do it. Write it down so you can see how you evolve year after year. You won’t regret it.

Thank you for spending time here.